In the movie ‘Face-Off’ a evil character swaps the face for a good character. The movie follows this concept by showing how much the two characters learn about each others identity. I got thinking just now about this and wondered how many faces do you have? Here is a brief list of sorts of the faces I thought that I put on:
The face for work
At work I have a way I talk and act. That’s not to say I change my personality to suit work but I communicate differently with people at work than I do at home. This is to be expected I suppose.
My face for my children
When I get angry with my children, I put on a face. I let them know I am angry. They get the point … hopefully. When I want them to do something I put on another face. Now, I am always me but there are times when I am communicate with my kids that I want them to see a side of me that’s important. So I put on a face.
A variety of other faces
I have a variety of faces for different situations. I relate to different people in different ways and sometimes use a another type of language when I am communicating what I am trying to say.
What I am saying is this: don’t let people work you out that easily. Speak the language that’s appropriate for the occasion and watch your face. This is how you let other people know what you mean and how you say it. This is important because the face you put on is what you give people to read. Think about this as you communicate with people.
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