Can you imagine getting up every morning and working until you went to bed? What if you made a choice to dedicate your life to a certain cause and all you got in return was criticism and persecution? Well that’s what my wife puts up with everyday. She is a stay at home mother. For this reason, she is my hero. Why?
My wife the hero
I really admire people who stick to their values. My wife is one person who always stands up for what she believes and never backs down. If the world had more people in it who made an attempt to live from their values, in this way, I think we would be much better off as a society. There is another reason why my wife is my hero. She has to put up with me!
Hero’s do what it takes even when nobody else will
By definition a hero is someone who does what they know they have to do when nobody else stands up to do it. There is a person in my life who had a major tragedy when her “husband” decided that life would be better, living with his parents in another country, instead of being around for his very young son. So who stood up to help? My wife. For the past two years she has been helping out to get this person back on her feet by taking her kid three days a week so she can work to support herself. This is what I admire the most about her. She is always there to help in a time of need.
The most important thing about a hero
A hero stands up without thinking about the cost to themselves. They are humble. Not false humility where people lower themselves to make themselves seen. I mean they just get on with it. No mess and no fuss. That’s what a real hero is. These are the people you can’t see. The fractured lines in between the elements of reality we all take for granted.
Life is filled with people who are overly selfish. People who step over each other to get ahead and at the expense of others hurt people recklessly and thoughtlessly. Every now and again somebody steps up to make a difference. The thing is when you ask them why they will always answer, ‘Because it has to be done.’ You may not be a hero but I guarantee you will know someone who is. If you know a person like that remember them. Do something for them without them knowing it. I guarantee you it will give you joy beyond measure.
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January 29th, 2008 at 10:19 am
Hi Luke,
Why did you say you hesitated to post this? I think this post is good and your wife certainly deserves some praises
Please let her know that she is my hero too. I respect what she did, and if you are reading this, Mrs Luke Hero, I take my hat off for you.Well done!
Blessings
Gamy
January 30th, 2008 at 1:47 am
Now your “her” Hero!!
I think writing this post was wonderful and if your wife has read it, then you have probably made her year!
I fully agree most people are overly selfish, and society as it sits now takes many “heroes” for granted.
January 30th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
Thanks Lou… you are absolutely right. Many heroes get taken for granted.