Archive for December 5, 2007

Having a William Shatner Attitude: Knowing what your worth

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William Shatner recently found out that he is not in the Star Trek movie.   His response? And I quote, “I couldn’t believe it. I’m not in the movie at all… what a decision to make, since it obviously is a decision not to make use of the popularity I have to ensure the movie has good box office. It didn’t seem to be a wise business decision.” Now there’s a man who knows what he is worth.  What are the hallmarks of a William Shatner attitude:

Know your worth something

How many deadbeats people do you know that just can’t see their own worth?  I am one of them.  What hinders us is our inability to be able to understand the simplest sense of value about ourselves.  What do I mean? You don’t think you are worth anything.  Let me be as blunt as I can.  YOU ARE WORTH SOMETHING!

Say what your worth

Don’t wait for someone to say it.  Now, I should say that there is a big difference between arrogance and confidence.  Arrogance is talking out of school about how much you think you are worth.  The difference is factual.  If you know you are good at something say it.  Don’t hold back.  Don’t boast but say what you worth.

Tell others what you worth

Shatner does this expertly he says that the movie won’t succeed without him in it.  Now that’s the kind of confidence you need.  Having this kind of attitude is wonderful as it allows you to have self confidence and a belief in your own abilities that goes beyond what most people consider normal.  I don’t think you speak this out all the time.  Don’t put yourself down because you will believe your own press.

Having a Shatner attitude fulfills the royal law, ‘love others as you do yourself.’  Unless you really like who you are then you won’t like others much either.

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The art of timing and Leeroy Jenkins

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This video shows us the art of great timing? Why? A plan was built to attack and on a whim Leeroy Jenkins storms into the battle ready for action. This got me thinking about the art of timing.

Knowing when to act versus thinking when you should act

The art of timing relates to the act of knowing. Knowing is when you have an inward sense of when it’s right to act. If you think you have to act. Then in reality you are probably not ready to act. If you know then you should take the step boldly for the timing is right. There is an art form involved here that revolves around the idea of you knowing what’s right and doing (intuitively/artform) and analysis of the idea (science/logical processing) and waiting. If you have to think about it and you aren’t sure then hold back for now. Wait, the right time will come.

What did Leeroy do wrong?

Leeroy ran into battle because of impatience. He was sick of waiting for action and made the snap decision to act. The art of timing says, ‘the time is right you know it, go for it.’ The science says, ‘analyse the probabilities and see what happens.’ In some cases the science is the winner but more often than not the art form is what needs to be followed. This is simply because we have an intuitive side which I think is largely undeveloped in western society. We need to pay careful attention to it to get the balance right.

Proper timing should be made on gut feel and not on emotions of the time

A lot of the time we get the ‘Leeroy Jenkins’, rush of blood and think we need to act because we feel it. There are two types of feeling at work in these situations. The first is ‘gut’ instinct and the second is a reactionary emotion. This reactionary emotion is how we are feeling in the our environment at the time. Go back to your home town and see what I mean. Emotions are stirred up as a reaction. If you boss yells at you. You feel something at that time. You feel it. Gut instinct is a deep down feeling that drives you to think, act and feel. It’s totally different.

How not to be like Leeroy

When making a decision of magnitude think for a minute. Don’t do whatever feels right. Investigate your options, look for pathways and move between the art and the science of timing to see what you feel. To know what’s right and do it is one thing. But to make sure is quite another. Sometimes you just have to do it to stop the endless reasoning. Which is really what Leeroy was aiming at here.

What Leeroy did right

Leeroy seized the moment which, by the accounts of the players, was a 33% shot anyway. In times like this perhaps Leeroy’s approach was the best one to take?  It’s hard to say whether it was or not.  But in my opinion, sometimes you need to just do something and see what happens.  With a 33% chance of victory I think it wasn’t such a bad approach.

Like most things timing is more an art than a science.  It’s hard to know for certain when it’s right to act and when it’s not.  The important thing to remember is you can learn from your mistakes but you will learn nothing by doing nothing!

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100 posts and still a long way to go

I realised as I got up this morning that I have written 100 blog posts.  So far it’s been an interesting journey from 0 visitors.  I am really only get started on this blogging thing.  I have ideas aplenty.  What I have noticed is there a small group of people have been helping me out in this process and I thought instead of giving a preview of what’s coming I thought I show some link love.

Business Opportunities and Ideas

The Synergy Institute

Today is that Day

Erik Karey – Internet Entrepreneur

The next 45 years

I will change your life

The Credit Card Debt page

A French page that quoted my wiki article!

Christian Coaching blog

Mabel and Harry Business Anecdotes

Techloaf 

The Wellness coach

The books den

Bryan C Fleming home of the millionaire savings club

Simple Pleasures

Ask the Career Counsellor

Anja Marret

Energies of Creation

The Tall poppy

Balanced life centre

Widows Quest

Knighty Night’s talk – trying to make some money online (not an easy feat) 

I am sure I have forgotten people who have linked in and made comments.  Thanks to all my regular readers, linkers and so on.  I appreciate each and everyone of you.  Remember: the best is yet to come!